A vibrator is a type of massage tool often used during sexual activity and is commonly classified as a sex toy. While they come in various designs, vibrators serve the same general purpose: stimulating arousal when applied to areas such as the vagina, penis, or anus.
The vibrations or pulsations produced by the device enhance blood flow to the pelvic muscles, help reduce the time it takes to reach orgasm, and can increase the likelihood of experiencing multiple orgasms. Here’s a closer look at the benefits of using a vibrator and tips for proper use.
Linked to Improved Sexual Health
Frequent vibrator users tend to pay more attention to their sexual health and often report better sexual function. Research shows that for individuals with penises, vibrators can improve sexual desire, erections, and orgasms. Similarly, they help enhance arousal, lubrication, and orgasm in people with vaginas.
Durable and Safe Materials
When choosing a vibrator, it’s recommended to opt for silicone models. Silicone is not only easy to clean but also non-porous, making it more hygienic. On the other hand, jelly vibrators can harbor dirt and bacteria, potentially leading to infections. Additionally, some jelly rubber vibrators may contain harmful chemicals like phthalates, which have been linked to health risks such as cancer. To ensure longevity, avoid rubber toys as they may degrade when exposed to latex condoms.
Internal Stimulation Options
Internal vibrators can be inserted either vaginally or anally and often offer varying pulsation or vibration patterns. They come in different shapes, such as conical designs for anal use or curved models designed to target the G-spot. If using an anal vibrator, ensure it has a flanged base to prevent it from slipping inside. Dual-stimulation vibrators are another option, often designed for people with vaginas, offering simultaneous internal and clitoral stimulation.
Minimal Risk of Vaginal Issues
While using a vibrator may cause temporary numbness in the vagina or vulva, this sensation is generally rare and short-lived. Research indicates that around 16.5% of people with vaginas experience mild and temporary numbness. There’s no evidence to suggest that regular vibrator use leads to nerve damage or causes long-term sensitivity issues. If numbness occurs, adjusting the settings or changing positions can help alleviate the sensation.
Diverse Features and Designs
Vibrators come in a wide range of shapes and styles, including traditional long, penis-shaped models, small bullet vibrators, and designs meant to be worn on the finger or penis. There are also handheld models with flexible heads and palm-sized vibrators for convenience and portability.
Lubricant Compatibility
Using lubricants with a vibrator can enhance comfort and pleasure. However, it’s important to use water-based lubricants with silicone toys, as silicone- or oil-based lubes can damage the vibrator’s surface. Using incompatible lubricants can lead to tears in the material, which may harbor bacteria, increasing the risk of infection.
Cleaning and Hygiene
It’s crucial to clean your vibrator after every use, regardless of the material it’s made from. Regular cleaning helps prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) if the toys are shared. Most vibrators can be cleaned with soap and water or antibacterial spray. Some silicone vibrators are even dishwasher safe, but always check the manufacturer’s cleaning instructions.
Promotes Orgasms
Studies suggest that only 18% of people with vaginas can orgasm from penetration alone, with 36.6% requiring clitoral stimulation. Vibrators are effective tools for providing the necessary clitoral stimulation, helping many people reach orgasm faster and more intensely.
Requires Open Communication
Not everyone is comfortable using vibrators, so open communication with your partner is essential. Discussing preferences and boundaries around vibrator use can help ensure a positive and consensual experience. If there is any discomfort during use, it’s important to communicate this and make adjustments as needed.
Variety in Size, Shape, and Function
Vibrators come in a wide range of sizes and designs, with features like vibrations, pulses, and suction. Some vibrators are designed for external use, ranging from small bullet models to larger massagers. Many of these can stimulate areas such as the clitoris, vulva, perineum, penis, or testicles. For added variety, some models mimic oral sex through suction or licking motions, while penis vibrators may feature rings or sleeves for additional stimulation.
